“These aren’t guys who complain about their bosses or disrespect their wives. And so, naturally, when I encounter men who do that sort of thing, it strikes me as weak, and I pull away. That’s just not who I am. Or rather, that’s just not who I want to become.”
In my last post, I pondered the lack of a close “board of directors” and celebrated friends that walk in life with me, though distant (read here). Today I want to talk about the above quote from Chapter 9 of Donald Miller’s Father Fiction.
As Miller concludes his chapter on friendship, he talks about not hanging out with those that display traits he doesn’t want to take on. This got me thinking about the image I project.
- Am I someone that others would want to be friends with?
- Am I someone that someone else would want to be like?
- Am I dragging someone down due to my attitude or actions?
- Complain about your boss all the time and do nothing about it?
- Do you talk about your wife behind her back, effectively undermining her in front of others?